signs, signs, everywhere are signs...  / Merissa (friend)

the question is what are you telling me and why? you've got plenty of other people open to your spirit, maybe they're overloaded this week? I dunno... I lit a candle and I'm focusing on you tonight. It's probably just another message for your mom but I wish you'd be more straightforward so I could get her the right message...

 

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Hey / Heather (Cousin)

Ryan,

Hey little cuz. I know it's been a while since I have been on here, but you know how crazy things have been. I know we just talked the other night and I wanted to say thanks for responding to that conversation last night. I know what I have to do now.

I love and miss you.

Heather

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4TH ANNUAL MEMORIAL PLANTING MAY 24TH 12:00  / SANDI SILVIA (MOM)

The Silvia Family would like to invite you to join them for Ryan's Memorial planting. It's hard to believe that this is the 4th Annual planting in Ryan's memory. Thanks to all of his wonderful family and friends his memory lives on in our hearts and the beautiful flowers that grow for him. Please join us once again to honor our Angel. Please rsvp so we know who will be attending. We thank you for your love and support.  You can email me sandij2@verizon.net

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dont know if you remember me  / Courtney

hi mrs. silvia i dont know if you remember me im billy's old girlfriend we named our son after ryan i just wanted to check in and say hi and let you know that ryan is doing good hes so big now and a little menace he runs around and gets into everything he is 1 1/2 now going to be 2 this summer well just wanted to check in and say hi and let you know how ryan is doing.

~Courtney~

 

 

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big 21`  / Gregg Cody (boys)

happy birthday buddy, im so sorry for all of ur family they lost a fantastic person when u were killed in that accident. its ur 21 n im sure uve been hitting the champain a lil bit but i will be sure to crack a beer in rememberance of u my friend. u and ur whole family will always have a spot in my heart i love u all and i miss u ryan.

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I'M THINKING OF YOU TODAY AS I DO OFTEN  / GRANDMA GREENLAW

 

 

RYAN

TIME AND TIME AGAIN I THINK OF YOU, I SAY, I OUGHT TO SEND A NOTE OR TWO THAT SAYS,HOW MUCH I MISS YOU.  HOW MUCH I'M STILL HURTING.  HOW I STILL CRY EVERY NIGHT WHEN I GO TO BED I DON'T KNOW HOW YOUR MOM DOES IT. SHE HAS A STRONGER WILL THEN I DO.  THEY KEEP TELLING ME IT WILL GET EASIER . when?       

LOVE YOU FOREVER        GRANDMA

 

 

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HAPPY 21ST BIRTHDAY RY  / MOM
21 YEARS HAVE GONE BY SO QUICKLY, I HAD HOPED THAT THIS DAY WE WOULD CELEBRATE YOUR 21ST BIRTHDAY TOGETHER.  I GUESS THAT PLAN WILL NEVER BE.  I MISS YOU MORE THAN I CAN EXPRESS IN WORDS, MY HEART ACHES FOR YOU.  EVERY DAY THAT PASSES IS ONE MORE DAY THAT I TRY TO MAKE IT THROUGH WITHOUT YOU.  SOME DAYS ARE EASIER THAN OTHERS BUT TODAY WILL BE DIFFICULT I HAD SO MANY HOPES AND DREAMS FOR YOU.  I WANTED TO SHARE YOUR FIRST LEAGL DRINK, YOUR MARRAIGE SOME DAY , AND A GRAND CHILD SO FULL OF LOVE.  I WILL FOREVER MISS YOUR BEAUTIFUL SMILE AND THOSE EYES THAT SEEM TO MELT MY HEART.  YOU WERE MY GIFT FROM GOD , BUT ONLY ON LOAN FOR A LITTLE WHILE.  HE NEEDED YOU BACK TO WATCH OVER SO MANY OF US.  WATCH OVER ME TODAY I HAVE A SURPRISE FOR YOU.  FOREVER IN LOVE WITH YOU ANGEL BOY.  LOVE MOM Close

Wishing you were here with me  / Mom

Hey Angel Boy,

Thinking of you today 38 months later and I still cry for you.  Your birthday will be here in 8 days.  Wait until you see what I am getting for your 21st Birthday.  You are gonna love it and me of course.

I m glad you came through with the medium when I went we were all so glad to hear that you and Ryan O are doing okay and watching over all of us.  We miss you but are comforted that you are okay.

Your 21st Birthday you can finally have that 1st LEGAL drink (if they let you do that in heaven) and go gambling with NAN.  I can hear her now yelling JACKPOT !!! 

Be well angel noy and know that not a day goes by that I don't miss and love you.

Love Mom

 

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IT'S BEEN THREE LONG YEARS BUT YOUR NOT FORGOTTEN FOR A MOMENT  / GRANDMA GRENLAW

  HI RYAN

SINCE HEAVEN HAS BECOME YOUR HOME
I SOMETIMES FEEL SO ALL ALONE;
AND THOUGH WE NOW ARE FAR APART
YOU HOLD A BIG PIECE OF MY HEART.

I NEVER KNEW HOW MUCH I'D GRIEVE
WHEN IT WAS TIME FOR YOU TO LEAVE,
OR JUST HOW MUCH MY HEART WOULD ACHE
FROM THE ONE FRAGMENT YOU WOULD TAKE.

GOD LET THIS TENDER HOLE REMAIN
REMINDING ME WE'LL MEET AGAIN,
AND ONE DAY ALL THE PAIN WILL CEASE
WHEN HE RESTORES THE MISSING PIECE.

FOR JESUS HEALS EACH TINY PART 
THAT HOLD YOUR MEMORY IN MY HEART
THIS TEARFUL HEART REMINDS ME OF
WHEN HE'LL UNITE US WITH HIS LOVE.

                                 LOVE YOU ALWAYS                                  

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3 years today my Angel flew away  / Mom (Mom)
It's hard to believe that it's been 3 years since that horrible accident.  I miss you more today than yesterday and anticipate that I will miss you more tomorrow.  There is not a day, hour, minute or a second that I can't say that I miss you any less , feel any better, or hurt less than I have.  On December 5th 2004 God took home my 1st born, my son and my friend.  I have been fortunate to know true love, at it's best and it's worst as well.  I am so thankful for the 17 years I was given to love and cherish Ryan.  I hope that all who read this know how much my family loved Ryan and how much we appreciate all that still care and show their love for Ryan and our family.  I will have peace again some day when I reunite with Ryan and get to have that kiss and hug and tell him I love him at least a million more times.  Until that day I will always remember.

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almost time  / Ryan Murray (boys)
It's almost December again, it's always rough but I think this year will be a little better.  We think about the good times a whole lot more than the bad.  You're always in the back of everyone's minds.  You were the glue that kept everyone together, it seems since then everybody kind of went their seperate ways.  I wish we could get just one more day with you one more day, it would mean the world to everyone but I know soon enough we'll all be hanging out again doing what we do.  You're my boy forever no matter what, and I know you'll be watching over us. love you buddy. Close

Memorial 12/5/07 at the graveside 6:30 pm  / Mom
Our family would like to invite all that would like to come to the graveside for the candlelight memorial for our Son, Grandson, Brother and Friend Ryan. We will all meet at the Hanover Center Cemetary at 6:30 and then you are invited to join us back at our home for light refreshments. If you need directions or have any questions please feel free to call or email me.

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Missin' you.  / Samantha Beatrice (Friends<3)
Ryan, it seems like just yesterday you picked me up from North High School, and took me to your house, where your little doggie peed on my white sneeks && your little brother thought it was the funniest thing in the world. It seems like it was just yesterday that we watched that rediculous movie "Kids". HAHA! When I think of you all I can think of are our silly memories && the things we used to do. They better be taking good care of you up there!! Love and miss you tons. <3 Close

34 MONTHS TO FLY AS AN ANGEL  / MOM (MOM)

34 MONTHS AGO TODAY YOU GOT YOUR WINGS.  I HOPE EVERY DAY THAT YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE AND GETTING TO BE AS CRAZY AND CAREFREE AS YOU ALWAYS WERE.  I AM LEARNING NOT TO CRY AS MUCH AS I USED TO BUT THE HURT DOESN'T EASE AT ALL.  I HOPE THAT YOU HAVE SEEN YOUR LITTLE NEPHEW MASON RYAN SILVIA HE IS SO CUTE AND I JUST KNOW THAT YOU WOULD HAVE LOVED HIM.  

HE WILL KNOW YOU WHEN HE'S OLD ENOUGH TO BE TOLD, I WILL MAKE SURE HE KNOW WHO'S NAME HE HAS.  YOU TOUCHED SO MANY PEOPLE JUST BEING YOUR WONDERFUL EVERY DAY SELF.  

BE WELL MY ANGEL BOY AND KEEP THE FAITH THAT I WILL BE WITH YOU SOME DAY.  UNTIL THEN PLEASE WATCH OVER YOUR BROTHERS, FRIENDS AND FAMILY WE NEED YOU MORE THAN YOU NEED US.

I LOVE YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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LOVING SOMEONE ISN'T ALWAYS EASY  / GRANDMA GREENLAW (GRANDMOTHER)
HI RYAN    SO SORRY IT HAS BEEN SO LONG.  I FIND YOU HAVE BEEN A VERY BUSY YOUNG MAN, HELPING SO MANY PEOPLE. BUT THEN YOU WERE THAT WAY HER TOO.         DO YOU FIND ANY FREE TIME TO PLAY CARDS WITH NAN AND GREAT GRANDPA ?   HOW MANY TIMES A WEEK ARE YOU HAVING NAN COOK YOU STEAK?  HA  HA  GREAT GRANDPA USE TO COOK A MEAN PIECE OF STEAK IN HIS DAY TOO.                                                                                                                       
I LOST ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS SUNDAY NIGHT TO CANCER ,DO YOU REMEMBER MILLIE THE LADY I ALWAYS WENT TO FOXWOODS WITH, AND PLAYED POKER AT HER HOUES ON MONDAY NIGHTS? VERY SPECIAL LADY. SHE WILL BE MISSED.                                          
TALK TO YOUR MOM EVERY NIGHT.  SEND CHAD KISSES THROUGH THE PHONE, ( LIKE I USE TO DO TO YOU.)  HE IS GETTING SO BIG. WONDERFUL YOUNG MAN . YOU WOULD BR SO PROUD OF HIM. YOU SHOULD SEE HIM WITH ASHLEY AND E.J., BUT THEN I'M SURE YOU ALREADY KNOW                                                                                               
KNOW I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU STILL SO MUCH AND PLEASE  STILL POP IN ONCE AND AWHILE FOR A  VIVIT .  HELLO TO MY DAD FOR ME HE IS WELCOME ANY TIME....... LOVE AS  ALWAYS
                                                                OXOX         GRANDMA         OXOX

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not a day goes by  / Gregg Cody (bros)

ryan,
i miss u so much, if i could go back in time i would change so much. i wish we wernt speeding that day, it wasnt the time or the place. 12/5/04 at 12:55 in the afternoon, it was a sunday, i was on my way back to the pizza place from a delivery to rooks run, i will never forget that day, that moment. u were one of the best kids, u could make us smile when we were upset. the next day we all left school n all we could say was i wish ryan was here to cheer us up. i kno ur in a better place now, but still ur life was cut way to short n im sorry for that. if it wasnt for ur mother being the sweetest lady idunno if i could have delt with ur death. instead of being mad at me the first thing out of her mouth was, thank u for giving my baby another chance by getting an ambulance there. i still feel like i am partly at fault n a guilt will always fallow me around, but there is nothing we can do now. we f*ed up man n u paid the price, but i can say i lived and learned. That day was a wake up call for me, i havnt gotten a speeding ticket or an accident since that day. seeing first hand that speed kills woke me up and made me see how stupid i was being the wheel. i hope when my time come i will have as much love spread around me as u did. i miss u everyday. see u soon.

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Memorial Planting  / Mom
To my dearset son Ryan, thank you for all of your wonderful blessings you have given to me.  Today we all gathered together to plant a garden of love for you.  You still have the best of family & friends.  What a beautful day, those who chose to come and be part of your planting are the truest of friends.  They could have been any where but they came and planted a garden for you.  It's been almost 30 months since you got your wings, and still your family and friends come together to keep your memory alive.   It makes me cry for you, but still I feel blessed to have had such a wonderful son who has touched so many hearts.  I hope that where you are you know how much you are stilled loved.  Until we meet up again, be well, laugh hard, love always and know that I love you more than life itself. Close

hey man  / Ryan Murray (boys)
whats up silvia? i havent been on here in awhile,sorry buddy.  Well as you know Burf passed away recently..i cant beleive it..but i know that youre gonna show him the way it is up there n help him out.im coming to visit the house soon plant some flowers share some stories a few laughs see some old faces..its been a long time since youve been gone..not a day goes by i dont think about you.take care of you mom brothers and mother i know they miss you like crazy!!..later buddy Close

29 long months  / Mom (mom)
missing you is an every day, every miniute and every moment thing.  But I go on knowing ou sre in the best place you can be,  I know you are with your family & friends.  We are the ones crying because we are so far from home.  watch over us Ryan we need you and miss you more than words can ever express.  my bond with you will never faulter.  I kove you my angel boy.

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